Worried about your elderly parents? Here’s what to look for and how to start the conversation
Are you worried about your elderly parents or wondering if they can safely continue living as they are? They may have been doing quite well, but now you’re noticing changes, such as forgetfulness, repeating the same questions, or difficulty with everyday tasks like driving, maintaining the house, navigating the stairs, or paying bills.
Sometimes, older parents may seem more withdrawn or start to exhibit unusual behaviors, such as blaming others for moving or stealing things, or even acting paranoid.
When families notice these changes, it’s often hard to know what to do next. How do you determine if they really need help? What type of support would be best? And how do you address these concerns if they’re unresponsive or upset when you bring it up?
Because this is such a common problem, I’ve created a video that explains exactly what to do if you notice worrying changes in your parents and don’t know what to do next. It will help you recognize when they may need help and how to approach the conversation with care and respect.
What mental and emotional changes are normal with age and what aren’t
Three key problem areas to assess
Specific signs that may indicate memory or cognitive problems
How to tell if your parents need extra help at home or in their daily lives
Important safety red flags to look out for
A compassionate and effective approach to discussing your concerns with your parents
What to avoid and what to do instead to reduce conflict and promote understanding
If you’ve been concerned about your parents’ well-being, here are some things to look out for and how to navigate these conversations.
Then, the next time you visit, try putting these tips into practice—maybe you’ll see that it makes a difference.
